Jada Pinkett Smith and Will Smith, Tom Brady and Gisele Bündchen, and Steve Harvey and Marjorie Bridges have made it work so far. On the other hand, Brangelina and the Jenners failed to fare as well under the brightest of Hollywood spotlights.
Getting life back on track is important for any divorced parent moving on following a divorce. Over time, many ex-spouses choose the track of remarrying. Those new relationships often include a new spouse with children from a previous marriage or relationship.
Significant challenges exist as these types of life-changing events bring not only emotional stress, but also legal complications, particularly when it comes to the impact on parenting plans.
Keeping the peace when blending a family is paramount, regardless of fame or largesse. That starts with open lines of communication between all parents. Discussions should revolve around living situations and accommodations to existing custody or visitation plans.
Sons and daughters of divorce enjoying active relationships with both parents are in their best interests. When stepparents become involved, they must understand both the children’s circumstances and their feelings. A stepparent standing in opposition to an existing parenting agreement is a recipe for disaster, especially if they are trying to thwart another parent’s quality time with their kids.
If that behavior leads to a parent disobeying a court order, litigation may be the most effective way to resolve the disputes.
Adults involved in blended family situations must be willing to compromise and cooperate as needed. Blended families should know that nuclear families have their fair share of problems in and outside of Hollywood. They are anything but alone in the obstacles they face as they live out the second chapters of their lives.